by admin | Feb 3, 2020 | Uncategorized
When all else fails, let go
Letting go should be so damn simple.
Letting go should be so dam easy.
So damn natural.
Letting go is how we allow shit to flow easily into our lives!
Why is it so damn hard sometimes?
Because we want it our way, on our schedule, on our terms, exactly as we picture it.
And we believe that if we just let go, God will bring us some watered down version of what we want so He can teach us a lesson about humility or show us who’s boss!
But that way of thinking is just your small self trying to convince ou that you are separate from God, and that He might want less for you than you want for yourself.
And that couldn’t be further from the truth.
God is always aligned with your deepest desires, cheering you on, and championing your Large Self’s aspirations.
God is always with you, breathing you, BEing you, seeing life through your eyes.
There is no line where God ends and you begin.
THAT is what you’re letting go to.
That ISness that just always gives, always pours forth, always says yes!
When you’re ready, God is there to give it to you.
The question is not, “Does God want me to have this?”
The question is, “Am I ready to receive?”
And how can you know if you’re ready?
When you’ve let go of all the obsessions around your desire, completely surrendered to God the “ifs” and “whens” and “hows” and “wheres” and “whos” and all the other conditions that you feel are so important.
Those conditions are preventing you from being available, in the flow, and ready to accept the miracles you’ve been asking for.
So…
Let go.
When all else fails, (because eventually, if you’re trying to control things, they will!) let the eff go!
Hand it over.
Trust.
Know.
I of myself can do nothing. But with God, all things are possible.
When we remember that we are the branch and God is the vine, we remember that we are simply an extension of the life of God. When the branch is cut off from it’s source, it withers and dies. But when it is one with the vine, it receives all the life that is available from the vine, and it thrives.
The branch doesn’t have to worry about where it’s abundance comes from. It simply receives.
(It also doesn’t worry whether or not it’s worthy! Which is a different topic for another day….but think about it!)
Receive by letting go.
That is the path.
It really is that simple, that easy, that natural.
It really is.
by admin | Jan 14, 2020 | Uncategorized
Want to know why you keep failing at your new year’s goals?
Because you keep looking ahead thinking that someday, somehow, you will be the person who has what you want, feels how you want to feel, and is capable of achieving what you now only dream of.
You are living a small, sheltered life, hiding from your light, wondering when your ship will arrive.
But you have forgotten that all of life, heaven, Source is WITHIN YOU.
YOU ARE the answer you’ve been seeking.
There is no place to go and nothing to achieve. It is time for you to stop pretending that you are not the light of the world. There is nothing to add to this moment to make it better.
No distant accomplishment is going to make you into a better person. You already have all you need within you.
Reaching for more outside of you to validate you, make you feel secure, make you feel like you can finally take a breath and relax because you have what you’ve been seeking….these moments are exactly what prevent you from the realization that you are whole, complete, and perfect, totally one with all that is, and completely provided for in. this. moment.
You fell asleep. You don’t remember and you don’t know when. But it happened. It happened to us all. But it is time to wake up.
There is no future destination; no version of you that you need to improve. The journey is not from here to there. The journey starts here with the remembrance that you never left and there is no place to go.
You have arrived. You are in heaven. You never left. You just forgot. You got lost in the dream/illusion of separation.
No more reaching. No more seeking. No more improving. No more needing.
No more trying. No more efforting. No more pushing. No more striving.
Wake up! When you do, the Truth of You will be revealed. And to the degree that you do, more of You will be revealed.
You get to live, create, express, and experience however your Soul desires!
Who would you be if you KNEW this was true?
What would you embody if you knew you couldn’t fail?
What would you create if you held the belief that everything you required existed within you and that YOU created the world around you?
What would your world look like if you expressed from the depths of your Soul everything you wanted to see….living from the inside out.
Oh can you see?
You’ve been seeing life backwards. Starring at a mirror and asking your reflection to change! Waiting for the picture to shift so that you can finally like what you see! But don’t you know by now, the picture will never change until you change the image.
Begin shifting the way that you see yourself. Don’t allow excuses to stand in the way of who you actually are.
“But I don’t have the time!” “What will they think of me?” “I can’t until….”
But if you have already arrived, if you already have everything you need to BE the version of you who is thriving, serving her purpose, living luxuriously, then all of those excuses are just preventing you from seeing what’s really there: your magnificence.
How would you be living your life if you did not know any limits? How would you show up for life if you knew you already had the perfect conditions to THRIVE?
What if there really was nothing outside of you to discover? What if there was just more of you to discover within?
Can you turn your gaze within? Will you be brave enough to seek for what you’re looking for by looking inside of you?
That is the only way you will discover what you’re looking for!
Exactly what is it that you’re looking for? Success? Fulfillment? Satisfaction? Creativity? Expression? Passion?
None of this could ever exist anywhere but here.
Life isn’t something that is just happening to you. Don’t you get it? Life isn’t this random occurrence that, if you’re lucky, you’ll get the house, job, and great looking man.
Life is an expression of your consciousness.
It is happening through you. As you.
The question is not whether or not you have what it takes. The real question is, will you realize that you already have what it takes, always have, and always will.
It is available for you to claim.
Fear, doubt, and worry have no place here. Limitation is an illusion. “If only…” doesn’t make sense.
What makes you come alive? Do that. Be that. Show up that way.
Because that is the life you were born to live.
by admin | Dec 18, 2019 | Abundance, Mindset
Money. Status. Love. Recognition. A better body. Success.
You swear that one day, when you have it, you will finally feel…
happy. relaxed. fulfilled. safe. loved.
But you’re chasing something that will never make you happy.
There is nothing you can “get” that will “give” you what you really want.
There is no lasting satisfaction in things.
Manifesting the things will only amplify how you presently feel.
If you feel broke, manifesting more money will not make you feel rich. It will give you a million more reasons to fear losing money.
If you feel unloved, manifesting a relationship will not make you feel adored. It will just shine light on how insecure you really feel.
If you feel like a failure, manifesting temporary success will fall through your fingers so fast you’ll be sure it was only an accident.
The struggle to get/attain/achieve is so unnecessary and completely pointless.
There is nothing outside of you to get.
Everything you are now chasing will become the effect of who you are BEING.
Want more money? BE abundant in all that you do. BRING abundance into your life, your actions, your choices, your decisions.
Want love? BE loving to all that you see. SHARE the unlimited love that flows through you unconditionally, knowing that you are the generator and nobody can take love away from you.
Want success? BE successful in every step you take. SHOW UP now as the success you desire.
𝔹𝔼. ℍ𝔸ℙℙ𝕐. ℕ𝕆𝕎. Not when…if only…
It is a choice you make in every minute, every interaction, every perception.
95% of your problems would be gone if you flipped your priorities 180 degrees.
If you made the decision to BE who you want to BE, FEEL how you want to FEEL, and stopped waiting for things to show up to give you permission to do what you want,
every excuse that presently “paralyzes” you would be released and void.
Life is spiritual. Life is energy. Life is vibration.
𝓵𝓲𝓯𝓮 𝓮𝔁𝓹𝓻𝓮𝓼𝓼𝓮𝓼 𝓽𝓱𝓻𝓸𝓾𝓰𝓱 𝔂𝓸𝓾!
So if you want more from life, you must allow it to flow from your consciousness.
Reality check: What is flowing from your consciousness?
What are you thinking about more than anything else all day long?
How are you feeling for the majority of your day?
What is the perception you have of yourself?
What are you waiting to happen before you give yourself permission to feel good?
Whatever you’re waiting for is most often what you aren’t willing to give.
When you open up to give more of yourself even before you get what you want, you become an open channel to generate more of what you give.
You don’t have to wait for the world to give you what you want. You give what is missing and then allow the Universe to reflect it back to you in form.
The Universe is a mirror. What you give is what you receive.
What you wait for gives you more time to wait.
What you withhold is withheld.
What you see as absent remains invisible.
What you give is amplified and returned to you 1,000 fold.
What you claim as already done shows up effortlessly.
If you look for the miracles that are already here, you’ll continue to witness miracle after miracle in increasing proportions.
I’ve learned that the world of form is only useful as a tool to show me what my current thoughts and beliefs are.
It does not dictate what’s possible.
It does not determine my next minute.
If you really knew this, what would change for you? What could you let go of that has you living in a state of fear?
What would be possible for you if you let go of waiting and embraced BECOMING?
by admin | Dec 17, 2019 | Uncategorized
I recently turned 40 (in July) and I, like most people reflecting on the past 10 years, considered the last decade of my life and what would be different in my 40’s.
A large part of me is ecstatic for this next phase of my life. I really mean it. I feel like 40 is the new 30…with more experience, wisdom, and a sexiness that comes with age.
But if I’m being honest, there was also a little part of me that felt disappointed.
Disappointed about where I was compared to where I wanted to be.
Disappointed for not playing a bigger game in my business.
Disappointed for not taking up hobbies I really wanted to get better at (I stopped playing the guitar when I had my first child 5 years ago…I do the math and wonder how good I would be now if I had practiced this whole time).
My crazy mind started spinning stories about how busy I am now with other things that matter and how maybe I’m really not supposed to have the level of success i wanted in my business. Maybe I should just enjoy being a full-time mom. The guitar was so hard anyway, who has time for that?
Most of this disappointment was destructive criticism, yes. And of course I did the energy and mindset work to change my focus and shift into a higher vibe of self-love and deep appreciation.
But it got me thinking, how many other women feel this same “crunch for time” and worry that maybe too much time has passed and now it’s not even worth going for.
How many other women stop at that threshold of the mind that creates excuses when you start to feel fear?
How many other women allow their mind to tell them that other younger women are more qualified, talented, and have the time and minimal responsibilities that make manifesting dreams way more feasible?
(I actually found myself believing that I’m too old to take selfies and cute pics for IG so I prob shouldn’t try growing my biz that way!)
These thoughts and beliefs are intense, no doubt,
but they are not powerful enough to stop you from showing up fully as the messenger/teacher/healer/impactor you are called to be!
I just want you to know that there really is no better time than now to begin living your life the way that inspires you the most.
A new decade (or a new year, or heck…a new day!) is a perfect time to begin again, learn from everything in the past, and make damn certain the next phase of your life is filled with joyful memories, as well as a sense of pride for doing what felt hard or even impossible in pursuit of happiness and fulfillment.
Because regret sucks. And I know, I know…it’s the spiritually enlightened thing to do to claim you have no regrets and you never really made a mistake, but putting your halo aside for a minute, just admit, if you could go back and do it all over again, you’d do it smarter…
…bolder…
…braver…
I know I would.
But it’s never too late.
And looking back 10 years from now, I want to say I took more risks this decade,
I loved more this decade,
I went all in this decade.
And if I fail, it won’t be because I didn’t try.
If I lose, it won’t be because I quit.
And if nobody listens, it won’t be because I was quiet.
I’m going to show up in whatever way I know how.
I’m going to take the risks that seem silly to take “at this stage in the game” (whatever tf that means)
I’m going to listen to the highest aspect of me that reminds me of my purpose while lovingly not believing my ego that says I should settle for something less.
I’ve committed to doing life differently.
I’m stepping up my game.
I’m playing at a higher level.
I swear I’ll never stop either. You can hold me to that
I will ALWAYS uplevel my game.
I will ALWAYS deepen my practice.
I will ALWAYS push my thresholds.
Because I know what’s waiting for me on the other side when I do!
Liberation. More freedom. More connection. More bliss. More joy. More ease. More peace.
Bring it on, life! What’s next?
I’m ready. Excited even.
Who’s with me?
by admin | Dec 12, 2019 | Uncategorized
My message isn’t always very popular. Mostly people want that burst of inspiration that will light them up and make them all fuzzy and get them thinking all positively. Which is great, and I love being inspired just as much as the next person,
But sometimes truth bombs need to be laid out and it’s not what you want to hear but it’s what you need to hear.
This is one of those messages.
My title says it all.
There is no instant gratification. If you want massive change and transformation, you’re going to have to put in the work. You are going to have to do your time.
You spent an entire lifetime feeding your mind with lies and limitations and you expect to clean it all up in a weekend over a chit-chat convo with your BFF.
What do you do when shit gets tough?
What do you do when it feels like the same old thoughts and beliefs keep coming up and blocking you from that life of liberation/freedom/purpose/abundance?
I’ll tell you what 99% of people do…and you can decide which party you’re part of. Will you be the 99% or the 1%?
The 99% will say, “This doesn’t work! I’m not cut out for this! I must be doing something wrong! She’s better than me. I don’t have what it takes! I just don’t get it! This is too hard! I don’t have time/I’m confused/I’m overwhelmed….”
And they will either quit, or stay stuck in that mindset, going through the motions, but never really getting anywhere because they are still believing the lies they’ve been telling themselves.
The biggest problem I have with the self-development industry is that everyone seems to make it look so easy, effortless, and pretty.
And it’s none of that.
Yes, it could be all of those. But your mind is so damn determined to keep you stuck that it. will. fight. you.
And that’s where you need to be determined, willing to get dirty, and play a bigger game than your mind is willing to play.
You need to be willing to do the time and persist even when there is no visible evidence that any of the work is actually working.
You can’t give up. Not ever.
You will want to! Your mind will continuously bring you back to the visible world and give you every reason why you should just quit now.
So just decide right now if you are going to be a quitter or someone who acknowledges that she knows too much to turn back and she’s going to do whatever it takes until things turn around. And if you choose to quit, just stop reading.
Still reading. YES! Let me celebrate with you and Life because Life is excited that you are fully committed to being the person who can lift her eyes above the illusions of this world and begin to see what lies beyond.
Your job as a spiritual being walking in this world is to be here, now, but know that you aren’t from here.
There’s a scripture that says, “Be in this world but not of it!”
From a religious perspective, it means something entirely misinterpreted IMHO, but what it really means metaphysically is that this world is a world that is at the effect of your consciousness. If you attempt to make things happen in order to find satisfaction or fulfillment, you are being IN this world, and you will not find lasting happiness.
But if you are in this world, enjoying all the scenery and all that your senses allow you to participate in, but at the same time fully understand that the Real world is beyond those things that you can sense, you are then manifesting heaven on earth.
YOU become a powerful co-creator with the Universe, able to work miracles, and find true freedom.
You become a channel for the invisible to manifest into the visible.
That is the real definition of manifesting.
Manifesting something isn’t about making something happen that hasn’t already happened.
It’s about making what is invisible (but available) visible.
IT IS ALL ENERGY.
Grasp that.
So when I talk about staying the course, what I really mean is learning how to let go of your attachments to the outer trappings of this world and the stories that limit you from waking up to your full potential, remember daily that you were created for a purpose (and that purpose was not just to get by as a successful human being, but to thrive as a spiritual being serving this world with the gift of you), and do the necessary inner work that removes blocks, reprograms your mind, and aligns your energy with the Source of your being.
It goes way beyond just affirming and visualizing what you want life to look like.
It doesn’t begin and end with a 5 minute meditation each morning and evening.
As a matter of fact, that’s the fun stuff.
What happens when it gets hard? What happens when it looks like nothing is working? What happens when everyone else is getting results and you aren’t?
That’s the work I’m talking about. That’s what makes most people run.
But you’re not a runner. You’re going to stick it out. You’re going to return to God every single MF day and use every opportunity that is given to you to awaken more to who you are. You are going to love yourself through your transformation, but you’re also going to remember that sometimes love is tough.
That’s what I’m giving you right now. A little dose of tough love. Because I know you can handle it and I know you’re ready for it. And mostly because I know what’s available when you become the person who decides to be unstoppable.
True freedom is available for those who do the work.
Liberation is available.
Peace that surpasses all understanding is available.
The INNER vibration that doesn’t require anything to change in your world before you experience it.
As you master the VIBRATION, you become a welcome energy for the manifestation of all you desire.
But that really won’t matter too much anymore.
Because you’ll be too busy feeling blissful, and looking for new ways to expand your consciousness, go even deeper and expand even further.
It’s just the way it works.
I’m so glad that you’re committed to your life’s journey. It makes me happy to know that even though it takes some real focus, dedication, and tenacity that you’re willing to be the 1% who wants to blaze her own trail, bust through the limitations that keep most people stuck for lifetimes, and experience life as a miracle-worker/magician who just receives because she IS.
You are.
And I’m right here with you. Busting blocks, raising thresholds, expanding my vision, and choosing to make the impossible possible.
I love you!
P.S. 😍😍😍YES!!! YES!!! YES!!!😍😍😍
I’m so super excited that this is happening!
I’m opening up my calendar for my new 1:1 coaching program:
LIVING PURPOSEFULLY: 12 Weeks to a Life of Expansion, Possibility, and Miracles
WWWHHHHOOOOOOOO HOOOOOOO!!!!! This is going to be LIFE CHANGING! No doubt!
I took some time away from offering private 1:1 coaching to clients for several months. It was a time in my spiritual walk where I was deepening my practice and expanding drastically into a new version of me. I started to shift in ways that made me see life through a higher perspective, and suddenly what I was teaching no longer resonated 100%.
Not that it was no longer accurate. There are certain truths that work on some level but as you elevate, they are no longer relevant.
And I had elevated.
I’ll save the details for a future post, but I want to focus on what this means for YOU!
I’m launching my newest 1:1 coaching program
LIVING PURPOSEFULLY
and I could not be more excited!
I’m going to bring my A game (as always!) to this program, and I guarantee you’ll never be the same once you’re done.
This 12 week program will give you everything you need to become empowered as the deliberate creator of your purpose-driven life.
You will see first-hand how you create all the results in your life, but more importantly, you will be given the tools that it takes to change whatever is no longer working for you!
🏝️🤩How do you want to live your life? How would you like to experience PURPOSE, ABUNDANCE, and TOTAL SATISFACTION in your own way?
Not only is it possible, it is already done. You just need to align yourself with the energy that is already available.
You have to realize that it is available. Which is one of the biggest struggles most emerging purpose-driven women can’t see.
But if you don’t realize that….like a DEEP inner knowing, then mediocrity and unfulfillment will still be part of your experience because that is what you’re focused on.
During this 12-week program, you will:
🤩 Shift from doubt, lack, and “not enough” to having more than enough for all your wants and needs
🤩 Discover who you really are beyond your human-self, why you are here, and what you deeply desire
🤩 Learn how to be a vibrational match for your desires
🤩 Uproot beliefs that limit you, and plant seeds of limitless abundance in their place
🤩 Consistently maintain the inner-state that makes you unshakable to outer circumstances
🤩 Drop into a state of ease around receiving on all levels
🤩 Become a magnet for miracles
🤩 Embody trust and surrender, allowing God to work magic for you in your life
🤩 Learn how to embody the vibration of abundance as your natural state
🤩 Experience abundance on your terms!
🤩 Develop a deep knowing that living your purpose is the path to ultimate success
🤩 Witness abundance of all kinds being attracted to you on a daily basis
You’ll also get:
💖Daily journaling exercises to stay in your desired state of abundance no matter what (Value $197)
💖 Access to me DAILY via messenger for 12 weeks (This is invaluable! But I could easily charge $1,500)
💖 Follow up session after your coaching program ends (Value $197)
💖 Weekly abundance-vibes meditations to help guide you into a mental state of receptivity for more! (Value $150)
Contact me on FB messenger or email if you’re ready to quit the struggle, master your mindset, and begin creating your life ON PURPOSE, no limits.
Abundance is all there is! NOW you get to experience it!
I can’t wait to work with you and watch your life shift and transform in miraculous ways!
