If you’re high vibe, does it mean negative things don’t happen to you?
Only people who are in denial or are trying to sell you their high-vibe cool-aid will say “no”.
Life happens. And OFTEN things don’t go the way you expected them to.
I used to be the poster child for “You can have everything you want and you can have it now!”
But I have matured spiritually since then and I can tell you that that kind of “creating” leads to massive suffering.
Because if you have that mindset, what happens when things don’t go your way?
You blame yourself. You think you did something wrong. You try to change your thinking. You focus more, harder, stronger, on the things you want.
The truth is sometimes things go the way you want them to and sometimes they don’t.
It doesn’t matter if you are high vibe or a total bummer to be around all the time! Sometimes the circumstances in life just don’t happen the way that you expected them to.
The difference is, if you are a high Vibe person you see all situations as a gift. An opportunity to grow. An opportunity to be grateful. An opportunity to be more loving towards yourself. An opportunity to be more loving towards others.
If you’re High Vibe and things don’t go your way, you don’t beat up on yourself. You accept were you are. You’re honest with yourself, and you don’t try to fake a happy demeanor when you feel heartbroken.
If you’re high vibe and things don’t go your way, you ask intelligent questions like:
“What do I have to learn from this?”
“How will this help me?”
“What is the lesson I have to learn?”
“What is this here to show me?”
If your high Vibe and things don’t go your way you asked questions like, how can I be present in this moment and feel what I’m feeling without judgement?
Being a high Vibe person does not guarantee that you will never have moments in your life where you struggle, where you hurt, where you experience fear, or even moments where you doubt yourself.
The difference is, as a high-vibe person you take all of these as an opportunity for growth.
To strengthen your spiritual muscles.
To develop your faith and trust even when things don’t happen the way you prefer.
To know that if it’s not good, it’s not over.
To know that everything, everything, everything is happening for your good.
So let me just de-bunk the high-vibe myth once and for all. High-vibe peeps experince loss, disaster, heartache.
As you awaken as a spiritual master, life circumstances don’t always change, but the way you perceive them will.
I guess this isn’t really the most sought after message.
Most people are asking, “how can I raise my vibe so that I don’t have to go through this anymore??”
But eventually the suffering becomes so overwhelming that you are forced to ask more effective questions.
^^and now you can see the gift in everything! Because that suffering will bring you to your knees and open you up to the availability of the universe to support you, comfort you, love you, and guide you to seeing everything through the eyes of God.
Pain is inevitable, suffering is optional. (Rev Michael Beckwith)
This is the state of allowing where miracles happen.
