by admin | Jan 8, 2019 | Uncategorized
Of course the short answer to this question of can you really have it all is “YES!” I know without a doubt that any desire that is born in your heart is possible and available for you.
But I have a unique spin on the details to this answer, compliments of Gabby Bernstein, who has helped me see things through a more peaceful and allowing perspective rather than struggling to make it all manifest now.
She was discussing a panel she was part of filled with other successful entrepreneurs/moms who spoke about their struggle to keep so many balls juggled in the air. Sometimes being a parent and biz owner at the same time can be overwhelming. They each expressed their belief that you really can have it all….but you don’t necessarily need to have it all at the same time.
This perspective is a much softer approach as opposed to the popular belief that you can have it all and you can have it all right now. And while that might sound great, the problem I have with this idea is that when you DON’T experience this as your reality, you start to panic, wonder what you’re doing wrong, and feel like something isn’t working. And that stance will take you out of flow/allowing which actually blocks more from coming to you.
As a busy mom, wife, entrepreneur, and all the other hats I might put on throughout the day, I have come to realize that when I’m not fully attentive to what I’m doing in the present moment, my mind get scattered/fragmented and I begin to stress out. Like when I’m in mom-mode, playing with the kids (which I actually schedule on my calendar because it takes conscious effort on my part to completely unplug from my business and other responsibilities I have) and I start to notice how messy the house is getting. I want a tidy house, and I also want to love on my kiddos and be present with them. In that moment, I have to choose between having a tidy house and being attentive to my children. I can have them both, but in that exact moment, I don’t need them both RIGHT NOW.
Divine timing isn’t always YOUR timing. The Universe really does know what’s best for you, in the BEST timing.
This by no means implies that you have to wait a long time, or that you can’t have it at all. I am a firm believer that if you have a desire placed on your heart, it was put there by God. And if God gave you the desire, He will give you the means to manifest it. But I also feel like too many people are trying to play God and call the shots and from our human perspective, we just don’t see the whole picture.
I feel a lot more peaceful when I just hand things over to the Divine, get out of the way, and enjoy what’s right in front of me. Being in a state of allowing is being in the state of receiving. More of what you are wanting will actually reach you when you just chill, relax, and allow.
Have you noticed that when you look at what hasn’t happened yet, your manifestation doesn’t have the chance to reach you? And when you aren’t even thinking about what you’ve asked for, just enjoying life, it seems like everything just happens effortlessly?
Don’t you want effortless manifestation?
Don’t you want easy?
I know that I do. Inner peace just feels good and even in the moments while I’m waiting for what I want to come to me, I’m already okay.
If you’d like to release the struggle of trying to get everything this red hot minute, here are a few things for you to think about:
- Acceptance = non-resistance. Regardless of what’s happening in your physical world, which you don’t always have control over, you DO have control over the way you react to your circumstances. Reaching acceptance for whatever you’re experiencing and however you’re feeling in the moment removes any resistance that you might have, making that experience temporary. And as the feelings simply be, they will move and create more space for the higher/better feeling vibrations that are a match for what you want.
- Get ready to get ready! Your job in the manifestation process isn’t to make anything happen. That’s the job of the Universe. Your job is to prepare your vibration by getting ready to get ready (as Abraham Hicks talks about in their lectures). To prepare your vibration, you have to find satisfaction in the IDEA of your manifestation. Abraham says that new desires are always emerging from your consciousness, so there is always something that hasn’t manifested yet. If you wait for the manifestation to occur before you feel satisfied, you’ll NEVER be satisfied (at least for very long) because you are a CREATOR! You allow 9 months to go by before you meet your baby for the first time because you understand that there’s a gestation period in pregnancy. You allow time to go by when planting a seed before it blossoms into a beautiful flower. Get ready to get ready and allow the gestation of your idea to BE without your interference.
- TRUST that the Universe ALWAYS has your back! Nothing is impossible or out of reach. No matter what you desire, the Universe is always saying YES! If you can simply trust that things are always working out for you, you can relax and enjoy the beautiful creation of your desires as they come.
This way of thinking feels so much easier to me. You no longer have to control, fight/push/strive/WORK to make things happen. And you can take it easy on yourself in the meantime, in between launching your desire and seeing it manifest into the physical, and just enjoy the perfection of your life.
What would change for you if you were more receptive to God’s divine timing? Comment below!
by admin | Dec 21, 2018 | Uncategorized
Thoughts are sticky, tricky things.
The thoughts we are in the habit of thinking often tend to feel more like truth than something we have a choice to believe.
But are those habitual thoughts serving you? Do you feel good when you think them?
Because if the answer is NO, then you’re causing undue suffering in your life, which in turn will manifest more to be miserable about.
And I can’t think of one person on this planet that I ever met who loved feeling miserable.
Yet, I can think of more than a handful of people who actually are.
Here’s what I want you to know. Your thoughts alone are what causes suffering. Not your job, not your spouse, not your current bank account balance. Sure, it’s a tough pill to swallow, but it does put you back in the driver’s seat. So would you rather stand by, passively suffering and wishing things/people/situations would change so you can finally catch a break already?
Or would you rather say “Sayonara!” to that fearful voice in your head and choose a different experience for your life?
You don’t have to believe any thought that doesn’t feel good. Every single thought is just made up; sometimes by you and sometimes by others but it’s all just just noise that you can buy into or refuse.
The best question to ask yourself is, “Does this thought feel good?” If it does, keep thinking it! Because anytime you’re feeling good, you’re in the flow of allowing life to bring you miracles, goodness, and all the things you want.
If the thought feels bad, don’t believe it! You might not be able to change the thought into something better right away (this kind of denial is ineffective, and a waste of pretty awesome affirmations!), but you can at least recognize that it’s just an untrue thought. The thought starts to lose it’s grip on your marvelous mind, and eventually (don’t rush it!) you’ll feel better and more able to choose a thought that will make you happy when it manifests.
by admin | Sep 11, 2018 | Uncategorized
It’s time that you start taking your own advice, acting on the wisdom that you have, and doing what you know it takes to have success on all levels.
You can’t mess around anymore. Life is waiting for you to show up so that it can show up for you. But if you keep playing small, blocking your abundance for whatever reason, you don’t get to live this life on the level you intended.
What is that reason anyway? The reason you keep blocking yourself? Is it because you don’t think you’re good enough to have it? Is it because you don’t believe it’s possible? Is it because you haven’t had it in the past so you feel doomed to have it in the future?
You do realize that these thoughts are the exact reason you aren’t available for miracles, right? There is no limit to what you can have and there’s nobody with a stopwatch telling the Universe how long it has to take. You can have it all and you can have it now.
How committed are you to having what you want? Are you more committed to living the life of your dreams, having unlimited wealth, abundance, adventure, fulfillment, FREEDOM!? Or are you more committed to seeing life as it is now, telling the story of what life is like in the eyes of you, believing the reality of your current circumstance?
If you want things to change, my dear, you must change your mind. Your mind is what allows (or blocks) your abundance.
It is quite unfortunate that we were all trained at such a young age to doubt our ability to manifest. Of course it would be nice if we could just snap our fingers and forget all the limitations that were placed on us.
But let’s just make it a game to forget what we’ve learned and remember what we knew before we were born. Let’s remember that we are infinite and unlimited. Can you? Can you just remember that again, even just for a minute? What would you think if you couldn’t think the thought that you are limited or restricted in any way? What then?
You would know that you are divine, worthy, enough. You would know that you have a storehouse of all the abundance and wealth you could ever need that is programmed with your name on it available for you to cash in whenever you want to.
You would remember that life is a game, it’s all supposed to be fun. You would know that you are completely taken care of and any experience that is less than amazing is a figment of your imagination and can shift and change in the blink of an eye as soon as you decide to take your attention away from it and place your attention on the invisible world which is way more real than anything you can see or touch.
Declare now that you choose to be a deliberate creator of your experience. Then claim what you want unapologetically. You can have it all, and actually it’s available now!
Do you feel selfish asking for what you want? Let that go.
Do you feel unworthy of having what you want? There’s no such thing.
Are you afraid that it won’t happen for you? It IS happening. Now.
Release your doubt, fear, and worry. How would you feel if you just knew that it was done? If you could sneak a peek into the future and see that somehow all the things you wanted appeared in the perfect timing in the most amazing and excited way, how would you change your thoughts in this present moment?
Wouldn’t you feel more calm, peaceful, at ease? Wouldn’t you be excited about this present moment just happy to be alive? Wouldn’t everything that you’re currently experiencing around money really not matter so much anymore because you know that it’s temporary and totally taken care of?
Wouldn’t you be giddy and happy about life in general? Wouldn’t you feel a deep appreciation for the way the Universe delivers everything you need? Wouldn’t it be easy to surrender the “how”?
Guess what?
You can live from this space right now. You can feel this way now. You can trust…and really the only way to make all of this become your physical reality is to trust now.
Let the world around you fade and remember once again, or maybe for the first time, that the world within you is the Real deal. Whatever you experience inside your mind will be displayed in your outer world. Change your thoughts, change your world. Simple as that.
And yet it doesn’t always feel simple. Why isn’t it working? But it IS simple. Maybe not easy. Only because you have a mind that has been trained to think in a certain way for a number of years. But it doesn’t mean you can’t make the changes right now and do whatever you need to do to turn things around.
Stop dwelling on the past and wondering why it isn’t working. That’s only going to keep you stuck. Instead, look to the future and realize that all the work that you’ve done, all the asking that you’ve done before now, all the intentions that you’ve set for yourself have all been a setup for a breakthrough. You’ve done the asking. You’ve laid the groundwork.
Now it’s your time to receive! Open your arms, expand your mind, reach out and grab it! Declare to the Universe that you are available now to receive in whatever way It decides is best for you! Receive!
Receive!
It is done, it is yours, it is now.
Happening.
Done.
Yes!
Remember that you can have it all, and WILL have it all as soon as you tune into the station of abundance that is always playing right now!
by admin | Sep 7, 2018 | Uncategorized
Why are you still making life so damn hard? Why do you continue to think this way when you already know that your mind is your only obstacle? Why don’t you just realize once and for all that you have everything you need inside of you to have what you want?
Life isn’t actually hard at all. Making money isn’t hard. It’s the easiest thing on the planet. You ask and receive. Is that hard? NO!
So why are you so committed to your old way of thinking? Why are you arguing for your limitations? Why babe why?
Why are you so hell bent on seeing things as they are when all it does it perpetuate what is.
You’re making all of this up. It’s imagined. Pretend really.
Why would you pretend anything except excellence? Especially knowing that eventually whatever you pretend will actually show up in your world!
You’ve been at this for a while. So I’m not going to remind you of what you already know. You know, all the stuff about you creating your own reality. You know that. You know the stuff like what you think about and feel about comes about. Yada yada.
Let’s not go back to the basics again where you act like you don’t really know. You don’t need to learn this stuff again. You just have to apply it.
You have to call forth what you desire. You have to claim it and then lock that shit in and get on with your life. You have to decide that you get to be abundant and prosperous and free! You GET to decide that.
Why won’t you commit to making your vibration the only thing that ultimately matters. Don’t tell me that the distraction of not having what you want right now is too strong. Don’t tell me that you can’t do it because it’s too hard. Don’t tell me that you don’t have what it takes or that it’s impossible.
I’ve heard it all before and it’s all just excuses. You can and if you want what you want, then you must. You just must.
Tomorrow will pass soon enough and your head will hit the pillow again and before you go to sleep, one of two things will have happened. Either you will have raised your vibration, evolved, become a bigger person with a bigger vibrational container to hold more prosperity and abundance, or you will feel stuck, disappointed, frustrated and afraid that things just might never change for you.
Here’s the thing that is most important for you to realize.
Either way, it was a choice.
And either way, you’ll have gone another 24 hours living ANYWAY! So why not make the choice to live it the way you want to? Is changing your thought and raising your vibration really that difficult? Or is staying stuck and watching everyone else manifest what they want while you just keep wondering wtf you’re doing wrong easier? THAT is what seems hard to me. The struggle of watching someone else live the life you dream about while you exist day after day wondering when it’s going to get easier and committing to yourself that one day when you have more money or time or when the kids are older or when things aren’t so complicated or difficult you’ll start to do the inner work.
When the inner work is all you’ve ever needed to do in order to receive more money, more time, more energy, more cooperation for the Universe.
You KNOW what you’re doing that isn’t working! You just aren’t dedicated enough to your desires to actually change it. You aren’t willing to do the work when the work feels hard.
Just do it! Seriously do it. Commit! No matter what. No. Matter. What. It’s that serious.
Life is supposed to be fun. But you have to be serious about your fun, ok? You have to take this adventure very seriously! Otherwise your fear will win. If you slack, care less, give in, put it off, you’re going to have to deal with the consequences of having less than you want, living unfulfilled, settling for what you’re given, just scraping by. Is that worth it?
No, of course it’s not. So let’s put things into perspective, mmmmkay?
This one precious life is yours to do whatever you want. Let me say that again. THIS ONE PRECIOUS LIFE is YOURS to do WHATEVER you want.
What DO you want?
This? Are you okay with this?
Not that you’re ungrateful. But is this where you want to stop?
We were born to evolve and create and grow which means there’s always more. One desire leads to the next. You weren’t built to mold your life to a certain point and then just stop. The completion of one vision is the beginning of another. And in between there’s more vision and possibilities that are available for you to express and experience.
It’s a beautiful dance with life!
Won’t you play? Won’t you dance? This is your time!
Just picture what’s on the other side of all of this. Imagine what life will look like when you just decide that you’re only available for goodness and miracles? Pretend that you can just let go of the illusions that surround you and make believe that you already have what you want.
This make believe workshop is the making of a bran new life experience for you. And it’s happening right now as you think about it. The vibration is getting stronger and the manifestation is getting closer. It’s practically done. It IS done! Can you feel it?
You are abundant now. You were born rich. Life is supposed to be easy. You can do this.
The Universe has your back babe. And that’s the only support you need.
But if you want even more reassurance, all me to stand in that space for you. And remind you that you already have what it takes if you’ll only just let go.
by admin | Sep 6, 2018 | Uncategorized
There’s nothing worse than wanting what you want, but not believing you can have it. Especially when there’s an urgency around having it. Like when the bills are due and you don’t know how you’re going to pay for them.
Fear, doubt, and worry will block you from receiving more money every time. You simply cannot occupy the mindset of abundance, safety and security while at the same time feeling afraid or assuming the worst possible outcome.
Money is kind of a tricky thing because so much of our lifestyle revolves around it. Money is required to eat, have shelter, and our basic needs met, let alone being able to do and have the things that make life fun and exciting! And if there’s not enough of the green stuff, a natural reaction would be to feel afraid that there really won’t be enough when deadlines come and bills need to get paid.
But being afraid that you won’t have enough money, or worry that you can’t afford something is going to prevent you from actually receiving a financial miracle. Money, wealth, abundance, is all available NOW, but if you’re too focused on what you don’t have, you’ll never see it.
Those fearful emotions come up when you’re focusing on what you don’t have, what’s missing, what you can’t afford, and what you can’t do. But if you shift your focus to something that feels more abundant, your vibration will instantly shift and as you start to feel better, you become available for the wealth that you were seeking!
Do you believe in abundance? Do you know the ultimate Truth and Reality that there is no such thing as lack? (And if you didn’t know, now you do!)
Once you really know, there’s no turning back. And there’s nothing to be afraid of. You just have to remind yourself sometimes, that’s all. Remind yourself that the fear that you’re feeling is a sign that you aren’t aligned with Truth. Looks like it’s time to celebrate those feelings and be thankful that your emotional guidance system is working properly!
It’s nice to know that we have a reliable resource to let us know in any moment how close we are ultimate reality. Because the better you feel the closer you are to God and the promises that are your birthright.
The promise of infinite abundance. The promise that as you ask it is given. The promise that you will be taken care of. The promise that you can have it all.
You’ve never done anything wrong. You aren’t being punished (except by yourself maybe). There’s no reason why you need to suffer. Your abundance is already here with a shining bright light asking for you to focus on it so it can expand for you.
Look for any and every reason to feel abundant now. Every dollar that you have is reason to celebrate abundance. Even a penny on the floor is an opportunity to recognize the miracle of wealth everywhere! It might seem silly or small, but God doesn’t care about quantity, He cares about quality.
What is the quality of your vibration the majority of the time? Are you tuned into the vibration of lack, fear, limitation? Or are you tuned into the vibration of abundance, miracles, possibility, wealth? Did you know that you are surrounded by wealth?
Wealth isn’t material. It’s spiritual. It’s vibrational. And it’s unlimited, created by your conscious awareness of it!
Knowing that, you can turn your eyes away from your bank account which is the result of your old way of thinking, and now go within and be more committed to the understanding of how prosperity works. Be more committed to waking up to who you really are. Be more committed to the spiritual aspect of abundance.
It might take a while to turn the ship of your mind around. So be determined and committed. Constantly go back to the inner vibration and reprogram your mind to form beliefs that help you get what you want instead of push it away.
Is it easy? Probably not. Can you do it? Most definitely!
Will it be worth it? Without a doubt.
It took me years of educating myself before I started to be able to catch a thought and turn it around. And even now I have phases where I feel stuck in a negative mental tailspin. It doesn’t have to take you years btw….But even if it did, wouldn’t it be worth it to know that you could write the script of your life for ultimate wealth and freedom once you’re on the other side of the struggle?
Wouldn’t it be worth a few years of training your vibration if the rest of your life could be a financial cake-walk and all you’ve ever wanted to do or have would just be an absolute YES! I can do that! I can have that!
For me it’s a no-brainer. I would do it all over again if I had to. Life is just too much fun and there’s too much to do and experience to sell out my dreams to fear. It’s just not an option for me.
What about you? You will get a certain amount of days on this planet. And none of us know exactly how many that will be. How do you want to spend this precious time you have here?
It’s up to you. It really is your choice. And every minute is a new opportunity to choose again, to choose better. To raise your vibration.
High vibe all the way!
That is the only way to go!
Remember that when you partner with the power of the Universe, you are infinite and unstoppable. Just say YES!
